Celeb #5 of 50 ~ Windy Trash Day

Earlier tFeb 2013 025 croppedhis week, we experienced another one of those cold, blistery, and very windy, wintery days.  Returning home, after bravely venturing out into that frigid air, I happened upon a trash dumpster that belonged to one of our neighbors.  The wind had knocked it over blowing it into the middle of my side of the road.   I passed it before reminding myself that to be truly neighborly, I should stop and return it to their driveway.  It didn’t take much time to remedy the situation, but it would have been quite easy to drive around it and just leave it laying in the road for someone else to hit with their vehicle.  This is an example of the simple acts of kindness that I desire to develop as a habit this year.

Is there some simple little act of kindness you can do today to make this world a better place?

Day 100 – Wacky Clothes !

Place Mat

Place Mat

2013 Wacky Clothes Day

2012 Wacky Clothes Day

2013 Wacky Clothes Day

2013 Wacky Clothes Day

Since our first year home schooling, we had decided that we wanted to celebrate our 100th day of school each year in a fun way.  It usually occurs in the drab month of January when you need a good laugh to help deal with cabin fever.  The 1st year we chose to make a place mat using 100 pictures of animals.  While it started out fun, we soon discovered that cutting out 100 of anything was not all that much fun.  The end product was cool (which we still use sometimes), but not worth all the effort.  Since then, we have looked forward to what we call “Wacky Clothes Day”!!!!  At least one of those years, we were brave enough to visit the library dressed in our wacky outfits.  Most of the time, we just have fun with it and spend the day cooped up at home.

What creative things do you do to add spice to your home schooling year?  🙂

Celeb #4 of 50 ~ Food Pantry Donations

Feb 2013 017 croppedWith so many folks unemployed or struggling financially these days, it seemed fitting and time to make a food donation.  The church we attend operates  a small food pantry supplying many families with a bag or two of groceries each month.  Even if you are not able to donate much, by looking for the really good sales at the store, your donation is stretched and can at least help out a little.  Consider finding a food pantry in your local area to donate a few non-perishable food items.

First Act of Disobedience

How far back do you remember?  What is your first memory of doing something that you knew beyond a shadow of doubt that you should not have done?

I was certainly NOT a perfect child (my many siblings can affirm this), but there was one instance that occurred while I was in the 4th grade that became a significant memorable moment for me.  We had just taken a reading comprehension test (not a strong subject for me).  We passed our test to either the person in front or behind us to grade it while we graded another student’s test.  I missed 1 too many in order to move up to the next level.  I was embarrassed about this, but what I chose to do, I deeply regret, and it has haunted me for many years.

First of all, I asked my fellow student to give me the test so I could change one of my answers, thus producing a grade to advance me to the next level.  Secondly, when the teacher called my name to report my score, I lied to her by giving her the incorrect grade.    So not only had I now cheated, I had also lied ~ with a fellow student as my witness.  I immediately felt terrible, but I chose NOT to confess or to admit this to anyone.  Instead I vowed I would never do that again and begged God for forgiveness.

About 10 years later, God still had a lesson to teach me.  While I was serving as a volunteer after high school, I continued to be convicted of this double sin.  God was now asking that I confess my wrong doing if I truly wanted to live in freedom.  How was I going to do that?  The school I had attended back then had closed.  I didn’t even know if the teacher was still teaching.  But I knew I had to try.  So I wound up writing a note to my teacher – asking for forgiveness – and mailed it to the last school where I knew she taught.  I have no idea if she ever actually received the note.  That’s irrelevant to me.  What is important, however, are the valuable lessons I learned through this experience:

  • Walking in obedience to God is walking in freedom and is far more valuable than any earthly reward.
  • Living with a clear conscience is worth more than any grade.
  • I did not wish to apologize to anyone again for choosing to behave poorly (that’s just plain humiliating and embarrassing! Also, I have had to apologize MANY times since then – guess I’m a slow learner.)
  • I’m thankful that God could use that situation with seemingly insignificant consequences to teach me a valuable life lesson.

Though this one “small” act of disobedience seems insignificant, it can easily become something much bigger when we choose not to learn from our choices.  When we consistently make poor choices in “insignificant” situations, we can grow numb to not living in integrity, and it becomes more difficult to make the right choice when it really matters.

~Lord, help me daily to live a life of integrity and honesty!

Walking by Faith ~ Not by Sight

This past Sunday, I ventured out early in the morning before church for a walk ~ it was still a bit dark out there.  For the first half of my venture, I was facing the moon ~ which I couldn’t see due to the still dark sky and dark cloud cover.  On the return trip, I was facing the sun ~ which I couldn’t see either since it hadn’t risen yet.

Though I couldn’t really see the sun or the moon, I could see clear evidence that they were there and that they actually existed.  I was reminded that walking by faith is similar.  Sometimes on our journey in life, we feel like we can’t see God or His Light reflecting into our lives.  His voice seems so distant and quiet.  We wonder where He is.  But those are the times that we need to look at the evidence:

  1. remind ourselves of His past faithfulness
  2. cling to the truths and promises we glean from Scripture (such as Hebrews 13:5b:  “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.”)
  3. immerse ourselves in God’s Word
  4. continue to walk in daily obedience
  5. look for ways to encourage and help others along the way – go visit someone

By continuing to act and live by faith even when we can’t see clearly, God can still work in us and through us to bring glory and honor to Himself, and, eventually, we’ll come out on the other side with a stronger faith.

Is this easy?  Absolutely not!  For me, it’s making a deliberate choice.  When God seems distant, it’s so much easier to wallow in that darkness than to rise up and do something.  However, I have experienced joy and victory many times AFTER I have consciously made the choice to act in spite of how I felt.  The reward is so much greater than the wallowing! 🙂

Celeb #3 of 50 ~ Mail Carrier Snack Surprise

This was a low-key fun one.  Yesterday, I compiled some goodies that I had baked (dinner roll, cookies, banana bread) along with some fresh grapes into a bowl, attached a note and a bow, and placed the surprise gift in the mailbox for our mail carrier.  It was fun to sneak a peak out the window when she arrived to deliver our mail.  I hope it brightened her day!

Thank You Note

 

Celeb #2 of 50 ~ Shopping Cart

This week when I ventured out to accomplish our weekly food shopping task, I decided to intentionally try to keep my eyes open for some specific way to serve.  I bypassed the 1st opportunity since I found a parking spot really close to the door. (SELFISH!)  I actually had to ask a tall fellow shopper to kindly serve ME by seizing some cans on the back of the top shelf just a half inch out of my reach.  (HUMBLING)  Finally, as I was returning my cart to the designated spot, I noticed a lady parked beside me who was unloading not 1, but 2 car seats from her cart.  So I offered to return her cart for her as well.  Ok, not a very exciting and momentous act of service, but this is the kind of act that I want to learn to see and include in my every day walk.  I am one of those people who tends to narrowly focus so intently on the task at hand that I can walk right by & ignore people around me.  I desire for my eyes to be opened and to respond in kindness on a regular basis.

On a totally funny note . . . (I have to share my failures, too, right?) . . . last week I decided to try to help out at the food store by returning a handful of carts to the store.  I really hope no one saw me, or if they did, at least I made them laugh!  Did you ever try to steer and push 5-6 carts to a specific spot?  Let’s just say, it’s not as easy as it looks!  🙂  If I ever decide to do that again, I will make sure someone is there to help me.

After Christmas Inspiration

This morning in Sunday School, we read Luke 2:41-52 ~ the story of Jesus as a boy going to the temple in Jerusalem to celebrate the Feast of the Passover.  I was privileged and excited to gain new insight on this passage!!  Consider for a moment that this story just may be about us.

We go to worship because it is the customary thing to do.  It’s what we grew up doing, and it is what is expected if you claim to follow God.  Does practicing this custom have any deeper meaning for us? Or do we just go through the motions of being a good person?  The Feast of the Passover is a celebration of freedom from slavery.  Do we truly wish to be freed from those areas in our lives that enslave us? Do we truly wish to experience the joy and victory that comes from choosing Life with Christ?  Or are there moments we kind of enjoy wallowing in our troubles, our miseries, our trials – using these things to make excuses for not behaving in a godly way?

After the Feast was over, Jesus’ parents left Jerusalem traveling for a day before realizing Jesus was not with them.  Then they looked for Jesus among their relatives and friends, but they didn’t find Him.  Sometimes in our walk of life, our worship is empty ~ we choose to walk away from His throne without taking Jesus with us into our daily lives.  After awhile, we realize something is missing, and we start to look for Him around us instead of looking into His face and deep within our hearts ~ the center of worship.  Sometimes, we seek Him only half-heartedly ~ not sure we really want Him to be the center of our lives.  We know we need Him, but to be on the throne?  Sometimes we really need to seek Him, be serious about our searching, before we can “find” Him.   Through it all, Jesus can always be found in the temple at Jerusalem ~ on the throne ~ worthy of worship.

Then when we do find Him, we ask “Why have you treated us like this?”  Didn’t You know we were looking for You?  Why have YOU deserted us?  Don’t You see how much pain I have?  In reality, we were the ones who walked away from HIM.  Jesus was there all along.  He is not the One who has moved away from us. We just needed to re-focus our hearts back on Him to find Him.

To summarize, when I worship, I want to choose to worship because I deeply desire to be in God’s presence.  When I focus my mind on the responsibilities that God has given to me, I want to take Him with me ~ seek His guidance in all things for every decision ~ ask Him to walk with me ~ to put Him on the throne to rule my heart, my life, my thoughts, my every action.

~ Lord, help me today to truly seek You, find You, walk every day with You, and deeply desire You to be on the throne of my heart.